What it communicates
In cat-to-cat communication, a direct, unblinking stare is a threat display — it signals challenge or dominance. Deliberately breaking that stare by closing the eyes is a de-escalation signal: it communicates "I see you, I am calm, I pose no threat." The slow blink is the opposite of a hard stare.
Cats that feel safe and relaxed around a person often initiate slow blinks spontaneously. Owners frequently notice their cat looking at them from across the room and blinking slowly — and then looking away. This is an active social communication, not incidental sleepiness.
The research
Prior to 2020, the slow blink was described anecdotally in cat behaviour literature but had not been rigorously tested. The study by Humphrey, Proops, Forman, Spooner and McComb (2020) used two controlled experiments:
- Experiment 1: Owners slow-blinked at their own cats in a familiar home environment, then held a neutral expression. Cats slow-blinked significantly more during the slow-blink condition.
- Experiment 2: An unfamiliar experimenter slow-blinked at cats, then offered an open hand. Cats were significantly more likely to approach a slow-blinking experimenter than one with a neutral expression.
The results suggest the slow blink is understood cross-individually (not just between bonded pairs) and cross-species (humans can use it meaningfully with cats).
Try it. Look at your cat from a comfortable distance. Soften your gaze (avoid a hard stare), slowly half-close your eyes, hold, then slowly reopen. Look slightly away afterward. Many cats respond with their own slow blink within a few seconds — sometimes followed by approaching you.
Related signals
The slow blink sits within a broader set of feline affiliative signals. It is often seen alongside bunting (face-rubbing), relaxed tail posture, and vocalisation (trilling or soft chirping). All are signals of comfort and social positivity. For a full overview of how these signals fit together, see our cat body language guide.